Prom Night -- Improved
I'm working on my young adult novel. About prom. It seems no one had a great prom night (according to my readers) but if you did, feel free to share. If you didn't, you can relive a happy one in my book. Mine sucked too incidentally. One thing I noticed at my high school reunion is that I was a happy camper in high school. Always happy, always dancing around, giggling, just lighthearted. My son's teacher told me this about him too, "that kid is always happy, always smiling and laughing."
Somewhere, I guess when I started to get sicker with MS, I started to get a little more down, but one ride in my convertible, with music blaring and I was happy again. But I can't afford a convertible now. Too many moves has put us right where most people are in this economy, but you know, I need a lot less to be happy now. In high school, I had nothing and that didn't stop me.
I mean, yeah, the economy sucks, and the world is a bit shaky. But I can't do anything about that anyway, so I choose happiness! In fact, last night my son told me to act my age. That is a TOTAL compliment. I don't ever want to be my age because that would be depressing.
So what are you doing in tough times to remember that you are blessed beyond measure and that God is good?
11 Comments:
I never even went to my prom. I thought I was way too cool for that. Good grief! I regreted when I saw the HUGE corsage my woudl-be-date gave to his second choice. What a bummer!
You know something about riding in my car blaring my music just lifts me up. I show up in such a great move to my destination.
Music is a powerful instrument. And I know it has gotten me through some pretty rough times.
Yes, that's so true Leticia. It's important to stay up now. Crank up that music.
My high school had 89 kids my Senior year, so everyone went, no matter what the grade, so there'd be enough for a dance! But my date was older, and had been out of highschool for a couple of years, so he didn't bother to show up until the whole thing was almost over. I can still feel the humiliation!
This may be a backwards sort of thing to do, but I can just watch the evening news and it hits me pretty hard how good I have it. We live in the country, so I don't have advertising all around me, and I think that helps my contentment. Honestly, some days I'm just so grateful for a dishwasher!
I went to several proms and enjoyed most of them. Music definitely affects my emotions. When I'm down, I love to listen to upbeat music.
Something that was really fun the other night, hubby and I went for a walk in the rain. I started to sing, "Walking in the Rain with the one I love . . ." He made me stop. LOL! Not really. I forgot the rest of the words.
But anyway, it was spontaneous to take our walk in the rain and VERY refreshing for this hot flash queen! *g*
I only get down when I have a migraine and there's nothing much that can be done when in the throes of that. LOL But music always lifts me higher. I especially love Twila Paris.
I had a blast during our high school prom. I had a band back then and we played a lot of songs and everybody was dancing and rocking. That was unforgettable. I enjoyed my date's company and we had a great night together. I wonder where she is right now. I guess she's already married with kids. It was a long time ago since the last time I saw her. Anyway, that's one chapter of my life that I will always cherish. The Prom night!
This is so funny. My calendar quote for today reads: "Whoever lives content with little possesses everything."
I think that's true. Even the apostle Paul said he was learning to be content in every circumstance.
Di, I do believe you're one of the few who had a decent prom date. Good on you hon.
I only did church prom alternatives in high school, which were better in my opinion! We'd meet at the church in our gowns with our date, take group pics, and go to a fancy restaurant and then end up midnight glow-bowling or something fun.
I did have a good prom experience in college though, when I was dating my now-husband who was a senior in high school. (he got himself an older woman!) I had a gown that made me feel very Marilyn Monroe-ish, and had the BEST candid pic taken of me and hubby dancing that is still framed today and on our mantle. =) We had a blast. And of course, my hubby got on stage with a few other senior boys and sang the YMCA. Fun times.
I was dumped at prom by a boy who (I thought) was the love of my life. I look back and praise God I got dumped! LOL!
Getting dumped never feels good, until you look back and think, WHAT WAS WRONG WITH ME??? Glad it worked out.
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