I know it's not wise to say "never," because once you say you'll never do something, that's exactly what you'll end up doing. So when I say I'll probably never get stuck in a rut in my life, that's surely going to happen. That said, however, it won't be easy for the rut. I get bored easily. I don't like to stay in one place, or look one particular way, for very long at a time.
Take my hair in the picture to the left, for instance. That isn't my natural color, in case you don't know. I'm not a redhead. I may be pretty gray by now, but that's another rut I don't want to get stuck in. From my earliest teens, I have colored my hair, changed the style, worn weird makeup and clothing. I've gone to class with green hair, gray hair, orange hair (not intentionally, just experimenting.) You may not be able to see it, but the glasses I'm wearing have red rims, complements of nail polish. I didn't like the color of the frames, so I changed the color. But I didn't get it straight, and so some of the polish reached the lenses, and it looks like a bad makeup job.
So, because of my need for change, I still have the dilemma I had a few blogs back. I have four proposals languishing in my laptop. Since I don't have a contract for any of them at this point, I'm trying to decide which one to work on. One of them is just right for a Hannah Alexander genre. It's a medical romantic suspense, familiar and easy to sell. I hope. But I've put a lot of work on that historical, marriage-of-convenience, as well. And then there's the proposal I sent out not too long ago for a straight romance with very little medical. That's new for me. And then, finally, the one that I doubt will ever sell is the medical women's fiction, purely about relationships.
How about you? Have you ever changed genres, either in what you write or in what you read, or career or hobbies? I don't think I'll do what Colleen's doing. I'll snorkel, but I probably won't go scuba diving.
What major changes have you made in your life? Clothing style? Vacation destination? Have you changed homes or tastes in men? What have you changed about yourself in your life?
How has that worked for you?
Labels: change, getting out of ruts, new genres
11 Comments:
I like to try new adventures! I love to travel and meet different people. But I'm scared to change things like hair. LOL Even with hairstyles, I'm a weenie.
Now that's unbelievable, Colleen. YOU afraid of ANYTHING? LOL. You'd look great in any hairstyle. Besides, if you get it cut short, it'll grow out quickly.
I've change careers, more than once, and it was scary each time. I went from almost 15 years as a police dispatcher/supervisor to a billing associate with a telecom business. I loved my job but after five years, the office closed & I was left looking another job, so I went into the unknown again, this time ending up working for a general aviation aircraft title & escrow company and from there to my present location, which is a mortgage company! Each change was from necessity rather than choice & each change took me out of my comfort zone and into new territory for me. It's only been through God's strength that I've made each change with the success that I have.
Beverly
I know change is good,
but i don't like it !
my middle name is chicken
I've changed careers several times in my life, as well. My favorite is working with numbers (and, jel, I never like change, either. Not learning a new job). My very favorite job was as a proof operator at a bank, where I ran every single transaction of the day through a huge calculating machine to balance the bank. Punching numbers mindlessly all day long, getting the numbers to balance at the end of each teller's run. Now that's all automated, sadly.
I hate change! But I've had plenty of it the past few years. Change can be a good thing--if we learn and grow from it.
Routine is boring, right? :-)
one of the jobs that i had I really liked was bee~in a presser for Lee jeans,
what i'm doing now can't be beat,
I've gone though alot of changes. and will go though many more, ;)
routine can bee a good thing too, esp for some people,
Yeah, Diann, routine is boring. But sometimes, I long for a boring day, when nothing is wrong, everything is working, and I don't have any challenges.
Jel, what you're doing now is awesome, if you're talking about the photography.
The more I read your posts, the more I find in common with you. LOL.(Especially the writing aspect.) I get bored so easily and was just doing this very thing--trying to figure out what to focus on with manuscripts on my computer. I signed up for workshops at ACFW and already am wondering if I did the right thing!
And I love to change my hair/hairstyles, but my husband gets upset if I change the style and color. Sigh.
I think we have a lot in common, Crystal. And you can tell your husband that at least you're never boring. Mel tells me that a lot.
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